Everyone has their own quirks that require compromise for a relationship to work. Trying to change your man’s core identity by dictating his interests, habits, friends, or dress sense is sure to leave him feeling unseen.
It may be a stereotype, but many men don’t think about things in as much detail as women do. Overthinking breeds unnecessary worry and distrust and create problems when there aren’t any.
Needing time apart doesn’t mean he loves you any less; rather, he values his individuality and the importance of maintaining other parts of his life.
While certain extreme behavior may be unforgivable, most of us make mistakes and have moments of poor judgment or weakness. Continuously holding on to your man’s past errors is a toxic habit that can pollute an otherwise healthy relationship.
In general, men don’t pick up on subtle signals, so expecting him to intuitively know your needs, thoughts, or feelings can lead to immense frustration.
Feeling worthwhile is a key part of fueling love in a relationship. When we take our a man’s positive actions for granted, they feel undervalued and unseen.
Because men are expected to be ‘less emotional’ than women, their feelings can sometimes be downplayed or ignored. Men have emotional needs just like we do, and they need them to be recognized and addressed.
They call comparison the ‘thief of joy,’ and that is certainly true for relationships. Just like you, your man is unique and has his own strengths and weaknesses.